BEFORE YOU SAY "I DO" - YOU MUST UNDERSTAND THE REAL LOVE YOU NEED.

When someone tells you " I love you", what comes to your mind? This will be determined by your understanding of your love.

WHAT IS LOVE?

Love has been generally accepted as a strong  feeling of deep affection for someone, characterized by:

1. A willingness to give and care.
2. A willingness to make sacrifices to please.
3. Respect, honour and apprecioation to another.
4. Sensitivity  to the welfare of another
5. Having  a feeling and affection that does not take another for granted.


To many people, love is a feeling and anytime they have a good feeling towards someone, they immediately conclude that they are in love. To allow feelings to dictates love, brings people into confusion and nd up mistaking lust and infactuation for love.

DIFFERENCES OF FEELING IN LOVE, LUST OR INFACTUATION -


1. LOVE is a strong feeling of deep affection for someone.


2. LUST is a strong desire  or drive . It is a feeling based on the desire to satisfy  a sexual urge. When lust in operations, one's goal becomes the gratification of a sexual desire or drive, lust is out to take the advantage of and nothing else.


3. INFACTUATION is in the same category with lust, but this involve a very strong passion and feeling for the opposite sex and only for the feeling to fade away in matters of days, weeks and minutes, and you wonder what came over you..